I kept meeting different men and occasionally I would meet someone who I would see for a while.
Right: flicking through tonnes of profiles, interacting with hundreds of men and meeting a handful of them only to find out that I had nothing in common with most of them. It was an emotional roller coaster: of hopes and disappointments, loneliness and tears, rejection and heartbreak, with the odd bit of fun.
I am perpetually indecisive about even the most mundane things, and I couldn’t imagine navigating such a huge life decision so quickly. Happily so—and probably more so than most people I know who had nonarranged marriages.
The first girl, he said, was “a little too tall,” and the second girl was “a little too short.” Then he met my mom. Let’s look at how I do things, maybe with a slightly less important decision, like the time I had to pick where to eat dinner in Seattle when I was on tour last year.
The film, which was first released in 2015, follows Nefertiti and two men, Anthony Butler and Gus Chalkias.
I read dozens of studies about love, how people connect and why they do or don’t stay together.
“Sometimes when you lose your way, you find yourself.” ~Mandy Hale Ever since I can remember, I was determined, even desperate, to find love. Again, I would find myself back on the dating scene desperately looking for Mr. A relationship, a breakup, serial dating; a relationship, a breakup, serial dating …
If this mentality pervades our decisionmaking in so many realms, is it also affecting how we choose a romantic partner?
The question nagged at me—not least because of my own experiences watching promising relationships peter out over text message—so I set out on a mission.